Last night I went to bed normally and suddenly I could not get him off my mind, I laid there for 4 hours unable to sleep and unable to get my mind off of him and the fight we had had days ago. You say hes your EX-best friend. It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible . The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). If they are yours theyll come back and if they dont they never were., I can vouch for this too. But when I'm around him, it's like a physical stalemate. It's crazy. I would love to here anyone's feedback. Birthday Report Package Deluxe Transit Report 1 Year Get A Natal Chart ReportProgressed Chart Report Deluxe Asteroids Report Get A Solar Return Report Get A Lunar Return Report Child Natal Report 1 Year Transit Report Outer Planets, Find Your Soulmate Saturn Transit the 12th House Using Astrology To Get What You Want, Predicting Violence In Relationship: Mars in Synastry. I don't mind though. You will not regret it. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. From: Georgia. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. Everything has a timing. It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. There is definitely potential for dishonesty(especially Mars) so one partner could be dishonest or cheat on the other. The 12th House!! I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. Otherwise we kind of don't touch. I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. I can feel him there within me and he seems to be aware of things that I dont want him to be eg. It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. Mars is a aggressive action oriented planet and again as always it would depend on the individual who is activating your 12th house. And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. It can point to an affair or clandestine encounter. As you said, these people were my ideal. like a Gemini (no offense meant) they are both good and evil, but THEIR Evil Twin often does the acting out. One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. I no longer see our reflection of each other I only see himself popping up in my mind here and there, but he now seems dark, untrustworthy, and truly not worth my time. Same here. He brings my daughter candy and buys her ice cream and toys. We are from different countries. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. We've been seeing each other for over a month now. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. Weekend Love Forecast Leo Moon Mood With Some Dramatic STYLE, Full Moon in Virgo: March 7, 2023 Mutable T-Square Distractions, Sign up to be notified when the blog updates. Venus is considered a Benefic, which means that this planet tends to bring good fortune. I agree with your experience. He have deep psychic connection upon me, where he called me at a right time. Disappointments come because we think there is something more even when the person has clearly said there's not. Two years ago I met a man with whom I had a one-night stand, thought of seeing only for that one night at a conference, yet continued to see each other for ten times during these two years. This is because there are endless ways these things can play. Im not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Even when on partner likes the other one partner would not want to be seen with the other person for whatever reasons as in maybe wanting to keep their option open; definitely a "behind the scenes" situation. At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. Jupiter i Mars is aggressive by nature but the sign and house, and aspects made to him will alter how he plays out in synastry. Can he just not see it because of this placement? Thanks for being so detailed. Its a bit of a puzzle, really, and I may not be explaining it clearly, but I do see what you mean, Elsa, in mirroring tendencies. The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. In synastry, composite, transits, solar returns.always the bringing the worst. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. JavaScript is disabled. His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. Also, yes this is definitely a karmic situation. Topic: Venus in 12th house Synastry: KarkaQueen Knowflake . It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. Double whammies. Oh one more thing: I am a Sun, Venus & Jupiter/Sag native and my Venus is opposite to my 12th House Gemini placement (Uranus-RETRO). Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. i dont know what we were meant to learn from each other but i admire them both.with both of these people , we understood each other really well and there was a connection. How do you reckon you and him approach 12th house matters like spirituality, illusion, Neptune stuff? His mars is in my 12th house. He is the same, because even if there is nothing that ties us, in any way, we would still feel like inclined to keep communicating. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 I have friends and one niece with Moon/Cancer who are entirely emotional and often easily bruised, though they hide it well under their hard, decorative shells. If a person is open to the supernatural, this would be a positive thing to see in an overlay. When wondering around in someones 12th or they in yours? Venus in the 12th house Synastry ( Love that's hard to catch) - YouTube When Venus falls into ones 12th house things can get very tricky and vague. Nonetheless it offers us the opportunity to heal karma, overcome our fears, uncover hidden talents and gifts, and to truly see the mystical, magical spiritual world. Him: Cancer sun/moon, Libra rising, Gemini Venus Me: Libra sun, leo moon, Gemini rising , Scorpio Venus. All information I have is the planet can see through the house person like cristal. I finally got totally turned off from him and just decided to forget him and put as much distance I could between us, physically, mentally and spiritually. This is the 1st time I've ever felt like I've met my other half.. my soulmate. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. And also a lot of Saturn and Neptune going on. My daughter and i also have gemini mercury and my baby girl also has venus in gemini. This has been a dormant thread for some time but I couldn't help but post in my 2-bits on a relationship with 12th Venus. Being with your spouse causes you to become more reflective and thoughtful. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. I leave, but I always come back after a while. And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? Is your 12th house tenanted then? At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. Helo There, Last year I was @ a party, with my friends. I need help with my situation. could you explain in detail why this weird connection happens in this 12th house? I knew he got around a lot so I was always afraid of letting him in but Im afraid I caused all the distance. But I ve never felt what I have felt for this other guy..and still sometimes feel. Thats so commendable of you to always have a welcome for him in your heart. Its really SOMETHING, and at times its like being on a roller coaster ride. You must be open and not make assumptions. He said, he hadn't and he just hoped we could be good friends when he returned. Not too hard for me to figure out, even though for years I was dodging it. Spirtual, Telepathic, Emotionally, Karmic, & Soulful. On a very genera Don't forget to check out your monthly love horoscopes ! Do you mind posting a synastry? He might love you but in his own way. and it was unreal and he sat down at our table and I felt like my entire body was on fire. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. I don't know where my venus falls in his chart. He does tell me how he feels about me. He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. You need some fire. However, it was my Venus in his h12th. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. Yah, that 12th House synastry . Hi GeminiRising! It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. And for that I am sorry you had to experience that. For example, you may not be a needy person, but you find yourself being very needy or vulnerable around the house person. Trish how did you get over it!?! Hi Aida, very interesting what you say.. Well you know, Neptune rules the 12th house, which is idealization, so in a sense these people will appear to be our ideal! Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. I have not experienced personal planets in particular Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars as being all that great placed inside the 12th house. Uck. ouch ouch! And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. We are obsessed with eachother. It is because mars is a harsher planet? such beautiful love, they put it behind the scene. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. To the point it's hard to explain to others especially because we're no longer together. Posts: 2196From: UranusRegistered: May 2011. I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. His sun falls in my 8th and his moon in my 12th where my sun is. lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? so the judging becomes like, omg i am judging myself kind of thing lol I beleive this is mostly for those aware and can face truth/accept themselves however greatly flawed and love themselves. Sorry, Mr. Gemini . Im so obsessed with him. The person whose Venus is in the 8th house of their partner adores their partner very much. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. maybe it was some inner knowledge of how he is deep inside. I loved his soul. He knows exactly how I feel about him because I've told him precisely and he doesn't feel the same way but he is always so concerned about if I'm dating/talking with anyone. Venus in the 12 th House The Venus person functions in a manner that increases the House person's self-confidence. I also have met two men, 1 in the past and the other one currently that many of my planets fall into their 12th house. But he is confused how I feel this way without needing anything. Conjunct Venus' are often found in long term relationships. Long story short I am finally over MY 12th House love for many of the reasons posted by Morag. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highly psychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. Never felt this way in my life. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. And also my Pluto is trine his Venus. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. Venus is the Roman counterpart to the Greek goddess, Aphrodite, and she is the female counterpart of the Roman god of war and conquest, Mars, who is also the namesake of one of the big eight planets in astrology. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. few months later he married her. This is a really good match because it brings together romantic partners with similar ideas about how to approach life. My ex and I had our suns in each others 12th. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, romance, values, and finances. I can feel him, seeing many good things in him that he never aware. These are people who souls we touch and theirs ours. Hi Aida! I started seeing a guy whose Venus is in my 12th house as well as his Mercury in my 12th house. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. I don't know if I am able to, honestly.This really feels like karmic bond. We have opposite rising signs. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. His Venus and Jupiter fall in my 9th house. But I still hope. And it is an easy relationship. He was drinking often(neptune) and because of this we had frequent conflicts(square to venus). Ive cut our contact channels. He does remind me of a father figure in a way. Are Venus Pluto Contacts In Synastry Problematic? more than likely you will see, there is a very big reason:) Often they are a teacher when it's a good person, or you have something to teach them. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. SPOOKY!! His Venus is also conjunct my Pluto and we also have Venus square Venus. which is terribly disturbing for anyone who doesnt want to face things. Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. Im also worried he is using me on many levels and though his words and actions say otherwise, I feel that this is at least partially true. i did not have any dreams of them. He left few weeks after we met for a travel for six months. The feeling that I am the only one dealing with the 12th house issues is so painful. Let me you move along. The Venus person embodies the ideal partner of the Juno person. :) Would also love to read about Double Whammies in the 12th if you have any info. Venus trine Pluto, sun and Saturn trine. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. There is always a lesson and something you will learn and realize that the relationship was fated for some purpose bigger than you origionally thought but not meant to live out in this lifetime. The comments here suggest that he could be affected, but I noticed that in these cases the planet person fell into the house person's 12th, but the house person's planets also fell into their intense houses (1st, 7th, 5th, etc).I have north node in his 12th, but nothing else falls into his 12th. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheavenif somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, Im gone. We finally realize wait, where are they, why are they not here if we feel so strongly about each other? These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. Either come correct or go away. He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. Once around, up and down was TOO much for that villian! A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and . You WILL find an emotionally available, decent man if you dont settle on lesser models. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? Venus Synastry in the Houses PATH-STROLOGY Utilizing Astrology to Find Your Path Home Natal Placements / Aspects Synastry Placements / Aspects Composite Placements / Aspects Planet: Sun Planet: Moon Planet: Mars Planet: Venus Planet: Jupiter Planet: Uranus Planet: Pluto Asteroids + Points Celebrities / The Infamous Past Life Astrology I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! His Venus squares my Vertex. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. Hi, Feeling. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. Either come correct or go away. , Hey I would like to know more about the 12th house synastry I have my bfs Venus Jupiter and I think another place landing in my 12th house but my sun sign, Mercury, and Jupiter are all in the 12th house so idk if that has a lot to do with why its so easy to connect with him because I read and obsessed over a secret relationship but its way out in the open all over social media on both side and his family knows all about me and my family knows all about him Im just so confused like yea sometimes Im thinking hes not telling me all his feelings but I feel like I know him on a deep level and then I feel like I dont like he seems too good to be true it makes me automatically not want to trust him .. hmmm. It proves that Venus is created for sharing purity, love, and spirituality in the world, when in a good state. I mean your spirits are communicating with each other, that type of thing. But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. I can relate to almost all you've been saying. This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. Your email address will not be published. Yet and still I have been in love with him for going on over 2 years. I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. Now i know why. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. Mars in the 3rd house overlay: This position for Mars in synastry, much like the 1st house position, can be very stimulating in either a positive or negative way.On the one hand, this position can stimulate a lot of invigorating conversation between the two, and the house person can appreciate how vocal and confident the Mars person is in their speech. Glad that its OVER!! The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. Why this could be happen? Gah! Where their intention was not to help but to hurt. Venus in Twelfth House Meaning in Synastry When someone's Venus falls in another person's twelfth house, the planet person acts as a magical entity that activates the house person's imagination and inspires subconscious romantic feelings. My boyfriends cancer venus is in my 12th house. I think that aspect makes you see what you want to see in the other person, but not what is actually there. Possibly. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. To me and my daughter since we both dont have our dads. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. Venus conjunct Venus is really good, you will like many of the same things and go about love a similar way. Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. Well, your handle actually matches his Cancer placements, as the Keywords for Cancer is I FEEL, and that is the key to him. Im so sorry for the delay! He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative.
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